I am totally obsessed with these two dating shows.  The first is The Bachelorette on abc.  The girl was on a previous season of the Bachelor and she got her heart broken so they gave her a second chance to find love.  She's down to three guys this week.  Everytime she sends one of the guys home you can see the hurt it in her and see the pain in them.  Her heart is breaking because she had to let go of a guy she was becoming friends with but wasn't clicking in the way she was hoping for.  All the guys on the show are obviously infatuated with her.  She's smart, funny, cute, knows what she wants and is confident about it.  So out of the three guys that she has left, I'm thinking she's going to pick Jason.  Yeah, he does already have a little boy but she doesn't mind that.  On their home-visit/meet the family date she looked very happy. 

This week she gave the boot to Graham and you could see that they were both hurting.  She really liked him but she didn't like the fact that he wasn't a sharing person and that his longest relationship was only three months long.  I would have to agree with her.  How can she put her whole heart into this, hoping for marriage, when he has never had a steady girlfriend?  It was really sad when they both sat down to talk and they cried.  It was even more heartbreaking when he gave her a card that expressed his emotions...a card that he thought he was going to be giving her when he got a rose...but unfortunatley he didn't. 

The second show is called Farmer Wants A Wife and its on the CW. 

Farmer Wants  A Wife took ten women out of the comfort zone of their city lives and brought them to the wholesome world of a modern-day farmer. All the action took place in the farmer’s hometown in rural Missouri. The ladies tried to impress him with their heart and their newfound love of the country life, or risk being sent back to the city. They faced the realities of life and work on a farm - driving a tractor, taking care of very large farm animals, sewing quilts and attending bingo night. Through a series of challenges, group activities, shocking eliminations and cozy dates, the uptown women saw how they match up with a down-home guy on the path to true love.

The whole time the girls clawed at each other, even in front of cute Matt and he slowly eliminated them.  Now that I look back at it, even in the opening credits you could see that the creators wanted the audience to believe that he was going to stay with Christa.  She was a horny girl who didn't think twice about expressing herself in a vulgar way in front of anyone.  She threw herself onto Matt whenever she had the chance.  You could see that Matt was really into her.  They never showed him showing any type of positive emotion towards Brooke.  In the very last episode they even showed him doubting whether or not she was really into him.  It almost made it seem like he was going to stay with Christa.  I was hoping that he would choose Brooke because she fit into his life.  She was religious, still a virgin at 22 and was madly in love with him even though she couldn't get herself to express her feelings to him.  in the finale he flew a crop duster plane over his house with a banner that showed who he was going to stay with.  Everyone was waiting anxiously when the banner finally came into view.  It read: Matt <3 Brooke...Matt hearts Brooke!  It was so awesome that he chose the right girl but the stupid part was that they aren't having a reunion or showing what's happened since the show.  Hello people!  You gotta do a reunion show!  I wanna see what has happened to the relationship and what the other girls have been doing!    Well, hopefully other fans of the show verbalize it better than I did and the creators do decide to make a reunion show.  I wanna know!